because i miss you {checking in}

Santa Barbara

Helloooo! I hope you’ve been well. This photo is from a brief stroll in Downtown Santa Barbara while I waited for my train. I was there last weekend for a bachelorette party and it was such a treat to relax and have fun with my gal pals. It was a treat not only because I had just wrapped up a crazy week of work, but because there was a moment when I realized that hanging out with a group of girls like that had become so rare in my life. Living away for three years meant lots of solo time with Joe and double dates with other couples. I love both very much but sometimes a girl just needs girl-time, you know?

The weekend was great and because I do love my solo time with Joe, I really want to go back with him to check out the old missions and spend time on the beach. We’ll see when we can squeeze it in as the next few months are already booked with travels, activities, and Ring Cozy is keeping me very very busy. It’s been growing, I’ve been learning, and the business is really starting to feel like the real-deal. It’s getting out of the awkward stage of testing the market, figuring out suppliers, etc, and moving into the more consistent stream of sales and processes that come with time, experience, and confidence in both myself and the product. I can’t tell you how awesome it is to get emails from customers who tell me how Ring Cozy has solved a problem they had. To think that my idea, my creation, and all my work in bringing it to life is adding something positive to someone’s everyday life – even if it’s for something as seemingly small as a ring – is truly amazing. With that said, this little blog break is over. Time to get back to work!

ps – I’m on instagram more often than here these days so come join me there if you haven’t already!

all stretched out

inside outside comfort zones

Happy Friday, guys! I was flipping through my sketchbook and I came across several ‘inside outside’ doodles that I made around the time of this post. In that post I said

“I’ve been stretched so far out of my comfort zone that it’s hard to imagine going back to my original shape. I like the new irregular shape that’s been molded by everything I’ve seen and experienced, both the good and the not-so-great.”

I really like the whole “irregular” shape idea of constantly morphing into a new form. A form that kinda resembles the original, familiar, and safe one but knows that it will never be as confined again.

I have so many sketches in my notebook that I want to play further with and this is my first step in doing so.

It felt like the right week for it too – I had two great online features for things that have taken me out of my comfort zones both personally and professionally:

Sharing my experience of living in Malaysia + traveling with the amazing Project Bly

A funny hate-love take on Ring Cozy on xoJane

It was a good week!

Now cheers to the weekend – go have an adventure and get all stretched out and irregular.

walk, bike, take metro in LA

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You know what gets under my skin? When people blindly say that ‘nobody walks or takes public transportation in LA’. In saying so they completely dismiss an entire population of the city who do get around outside the confines of a privately owned vehicle.

Joe and I are a part of that often dismissed group. For us it’s a choice that we’re lucky to have but that’s precisely the thing that tends to surprise some people – why wouldn’t you have a car if you could??  The answer is simple: we don’t want one. We don’t particularly like driving, we enjoy riding our bikes, and we deliberately found an apartment that is close to bus stops and rail stations. In fact, collectively we haven’t been car owners for about four years. I sold mine when I lived in Downtown LA before moving to London and we just never had the urge or need while living abroad. Plus, we’d rather save that money for other things since (as all car owners know) cars are nothing but money pits in the end.

While there are moments when a car is necessary – like driving to the west side for a meeting or going away for the weekend – we’ve found options that are easy and cost effective.  If it’s not a full day car rental with Enterprise, it’s Zipcar by the hour, and if we just need a quick ride it’s Lyft or a traditional taxi. Otherwise we’re using our own two feet and getting full use of our Metrocards.

Sure, LA’s work-in-progress Metro system and city sprawl make it more challenging to get around than in other cities and countries, but it is possible. Frustrating at times but still possible. Here are my pros and cons:

Buses are not frequent enough,  are often late (or no-shows), and information is nonexistent at 99% of the stops. There should be route maps for the buses that stop there so people can see the destination possibilities. There should also be schedules for each route so that people can have a clue about how long of a wait they might be in for. Fortunately I have a phone that I can use to look all of that up but there are still plenty of people who don’t have that option and that leaves them totally in the dark. And lastly, how about some humane shade coverings with lights at night so that people waiting don’t have a heat stroke, stand in darkness, or get wet when we get the occasional rainfall? To be fair, there are some stops that have one or two of the above but it’s so inconsistent that it’s useless.

Now for the pros that make all the difference and make the cons bearable. The obvious is getting more time to do emails and browse online while someone else does the driving but my favorite is getting curbside service; I never have to worry about parking! It does sometimes takes more time to run a simple errand but the upside is that it gives me opportunities to feel like a part of the community. Like when I sit next to people on the bus and the train or when I walk and ride my bike and actually stop to smell the roses…or the trees…or feel the wind blowing and hear birds singing. Cars can be so isolating in both good and bad ways. Good like when it’s just you, your music, and a beautiful sunset in your rear view mirrors. Bad like when all you do is get in, drive, park, get out, repeat.

Pros and cons aside, I do have moments when I wish I could just get in a car and go without any regard to schedules and location but ultimately I know that our choice is right for us right now. We still have a lot of adventures ahead, and every penny we save in any way we can is going to help us get there. Right now this is our adventure so the next time you hear someone claim that no one walks, bikes, or takes the Metro in LA, you can say that you know two people who do :)

mountain getaway {mammoth}

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“Going to the mountains is going home”. This John Muir quote was posted on a sign for departing visitors of Mammoth and as we drove past it – leaving behind an incredible weekend of reconnecting with friends and nature – I smiled and thanked Mr. Muir for the reminder. The mountains have never felt more like home than they do right now and I’m really relishing the opportunity to enjoy them while we’re in LA. For Christmas they were just one and a half hours away and for this long weekend, it was six. One day I want to actually live in the mountains, but for now our current proximity is just right to satisfy my nature longings.

It’s been a very dry winter so there was hardly any snow in the area and the snow on the slopes was mostly man-made. Not perfect for avid skiers but perfect for me as a newbie. I had only snowboarded four times prior to trying skiing on Saturday and since I never quite got into having my feet strapped into one single unit while facing sideways, I figured that skiing was worth trying. Joe, being the pro that he is, spent the day with me playing instructor and after only four runs (with breaks in between because my legs were giving in!) I think I’m on a good track. I have some balance and speed issues to deal with but at least the giant tennis ball size bruise on my left hip proves that I tried.

When we weren’t on the slopes we relaxed at the condo/cabin. There were ten of us so it was perfect for playing a variety of card games, one of which was totally new for me: Cards Against Humanity. Have you ever played that? It’s pretty awful/hilarious. You really need to be in comfortable company for it, and that we were.

On day two we took a break from the bindings to watch the US Snowboarding Grand Prix for the Olympics. There’s nothing like watching pros to make you realize how much of a beginner you are…it all would have been so simple had I learned when I was five like all the other kids doing the “pizza” stance with me…

Luckily the rest of the day included a hike around Convict Lake, something that I felt very comfortable doing on my feet. It was beautiful and just the right time of day to watch the light change on the lake and surrounding formations. I say formations because every side looked different from the other – one with pine trees, one with jagged rock walls, and the other like an uphill prairie. We took our time making the loop, oooing and awwing with every turn that we made. Unfortunately on the last leg there were multiple stretches where the trail was covered in ice, and I slipped and fell on my right hip. Had to balance out the bruise from the previous day, right?! It was worth it though, to get that time in nature with friends, to be out breathing the fresh air, and to simply be surrounded by something so majestic.

Can’t wait to go ‘home’ again.

 

 

re-set

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I know we’re mid-way through the month but it’s still January soooo … Happy New Year! I’m excited for 2014. It looks good when written, it sounds great when said aloud, and I’ll finally turn that ripe age of 29 after a year of mistakenly saying that that’s what I am (obviously not afraid of getting old here).

The year got off to a solid start with work and social fun but the sick bug I had been avoiding for months apparently decided that 2014 was its time to shine. I spent two days with the worst fever I’ve had since childhood and had it not been for Joe diligently taking care of me it might have been four.

Now with the sick-me out of the way, it almost feels like I’m starting the new year all over again. It’s time to get back to business, put some non-pj looking clothes on, and actually leave the house (yay!). And in the middle of it all, remember to stop and notice the inspiring things around me like these sunset building patterns and colors the day before I got sick.

That’s what I’m excited to get back to – the accomplished feeling that comes from getting things done and the little moments through out each day that make life feel magical.

I think that the real 29 is going to be great :)

re-set

working sunset

I know we’re mid-way through the month but it’s still January soooo … Happy New Year! I’m excited for 2014. It looks good when written, it sounds great when said aloud, and I’ll finally turn that ripe age of 29 after a year of mistakenly saying that that’s what I am (obviously not afraid of getting old here).

The year got off to a solid start with work and social fun but the sick bug I had been avoiding for months apparently decided that 2014 was its time to shine. I spent two days with the worst fever I’ve had since childhood and had it not been for Joe diligently taking care of me it might have been four.

Now with the sick-me out of the way, it almost feels like I’m starting the new year all over again. It’s time to get back to business, put some non-pj looking clothes on, and actually leave the house (yay!). And in the middle of it all, remember to stop and notice the inspiring things around me like these sunset building patterns and colors the day before I got sick.

That’s what I’m excited to get back to – the accomplished feeling that comes from getting things done and the little moments through out each day that make life feel magical.

I think that the real 29 is going to be great :)

a mighty good year

wedding in colombia
kota kinabalu
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Ubud, Bali
Alaska by Ana Maria Munoz
Redang, Malaysia
Melaka, Malaysia
Takayama, Japan
Tokyo, Japan
by Clare Barker Wells shot in KLCC Park, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
hiking in sedona, arizona
Route 66

2013, you were one GREAT year. Challenging, adventurous, stimulating, inspiring, loving, and beautiful…definitely one of the best yet.

In January I could have never imagined that I’d be sharing 90% of the year’s highlights below. Every new year brings new experiences and opportunities and seeing them unfold one-by-one is truly a thing of beauty. Every challenge you overcome, every time you say ‘yes’ instead of ‘no’, every time you let your self get out of your comfort zone (personally, professionally, and physically), they’re all worth recognizing and celebrating.

So cheers – cheers to reflecting on and celebrating the journey had while looking forward to the adventures that await. Have a very happy new year! xx.

2013 Highlights

Launching Ring Cozy

Getting married in Colombia + exploring it with friends

Being featured by Cuyana

Going off the beaten path in Kota Kinabalu, Sabah, Malaysia

Photographing the beautiful bags by KAYU

Stay-cationing in KL

Ditching the glasses and getting LASIK

Fishing in Phu Quoc and riding like a local in Saigon, Vietnam

Celebrating one year of living in Kuala Lumpur

Jetting off to Bali for the weekend

Getting married again in Alaska and exploring the Last Frontier

Launching the Love Malaysia Collection with Gin & Jacqie

Snorkeling in Redang Island, Malaysia

Learning to cook our new Malaysian comfort food at LaZat

Park strolling in Bangkok

Exploring and eating in Melaka, Malaysia

Falling in love with Rio De Janeiro in three days

A dream trip to Takayama and Tokyo, Japan

Loving and leaving our flat in KL

Posing for the camera for lasting memories of our time in KL

Road-tripping to Sedona via Historic Route 66

Wrapping up the year with a cozy cabin getaway

 

 

 

 

a mighty good year

wedding in colombia
kota kinabalu
IMG_7822
IMG_7905
Ubud, Bali
Alaska by Ana Maria Munoz
Redang, Malaysia
Melaka, Malaysia
Takayama, Japan
Tokyo, Japan
by Clare Barker Wells shot in KLCC Park, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
hiking in sedona, arizona
Route 66

2013, you were one GREAT year. Challenging, adventurous, stimulating, inspiring, loving, and beautiful…definitely one of the best yet.

In January I could have never imagined that I’d be sharing 90% of the year’s highlights below. Every new year brings new experiences and opportunities and seeing them unfold one-by-one is truly a thing of beauty. Every challenge you overcome, every time you say ‘yes’ instead of ‘no’, every time you let your self get out of your comfort zone (personally, professionally, and physically), they’re all worth recognizing and celebrating.

So cheers – cheers to reflecting on and celebrating the journey had while looking forward to the adventures that await. Have a very happy new year! xx.

2013 Highlights

Launching Ring Cozy

Getting married in Colombia + exploring it with friends

Being featured by Cuyana

Going off the beaten path in Kota Kinabalu, Sabah, Malaysia

Photographing the beautiful bags by KAYU

Stay-cationing in KL

Ditching the glasses and getting LASIK

Fishing in Phu Quoc and riding like a local in Saigon, Vietnam

Celebrating one year of living in Kuala Lumpur

Jetting off to Bali for the weekend

Getting married again in Alaska and exploring the Last Frontier

Launching the Love Malaysia Collection with Gin & Jacqie

Snorkeling in Redang Island, Malaysia

Learning to cook our new Malaysian comfort food at LaZat

Park strolling in Bangkok

Exploring and eating in Melaka, Malaysia

Falling in love with Rio De Janeiro in three days

A dream trip to Takayama and Tokyo, Japan

Loving and leaving our flat in KL

Posing for the camera for lasting memories of our time in KL

Road-tripping to Sedona via Historic Route 66

Wrapping up the year with a cozy cabin getaway

 

 

 

 

a cozy cabin christmas

Christmas 2013

Hi guys! How have your holidays been? We spent our Christmas in the mountains just outside of LA and it was perfect. We booked a great little cabin via Airbnb, rented a car, and loaded up on firewood and groceries for plenty of cooking, drinking, and snacking. The plan was simple: relax and indulge.

Other than driving ten minutes to Lake Arrowhead for a brief visit, we stayed cozied up inside with a roaring fire (Joe is a great Boy Scout) and ate whatever we wanted, whenever we wanted. Christmas Eve dinner was just right but the food highlight of the holiday was my batch of Colombian buñuelos. I made them for Christmas in London but last year we sadly had to go without the traditional fried cheese balls of goodness since the cheese we needed simply didn’t exist in KL. However, it only made them taste that much better this time around, especially since I got to share them with my family! My sister, brother-in-law, and nieces joined us on Christmas Day, just in time for my girls to help me roll the maza into little balls. After tamales and buñuelos, my nieces and I did Christmas arts and crafts and roasted marshmallows with Tio Jojo using sharpened branches he collected. Needless to say, those girls were two very happy campers!

And so was everyone else. Joe had been happy since we arrived because he finally had an excuse to use the hatchet I bought him three Christmases ago (couldn’t take it to London with us) while my sister and bro in-law were happy to kick up their feet and relax while Tia Mu (me) entertained the girls with activities.

It was absolutely perfect. The family time, the quiet time, the nature time. I can’t think of a better Christmas gift than the gift of an experience with the ones you love. So happy.

get your kicks

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There’s nothing more American than a road trip and our trip to Sedona last month was the perfect welcome back experience.

We’ve been car-less for nearly four years now (counting when I last lived in LA and got rid of mine) and currently have no plan to buy one. So when it was time to head to Sedona for a friend’s wedding, renting a car and hitting the open road felt like a big adventure.

Growing up in LA I’d notice historic markings all over town indicating that X Y Z street was a part of ‘Historic Route 66’. I knew where the route ended (the Santa Monica Pier) but I had no idea what the rest of it looked like. The Sedona trip was the perfect opportunity to see what was east of Los Angeles and California on the ‘Mother Road’ that invented motels and created (once thriving) small towns around it.

We used the freeways leaving LA but as soon as we passed Barstow and had our required In-n-Out meal, Route 66 was it.  It was quiet, there were no trucks, and it was right next to the landscape. When we saw something we liked, we stopped and enjoyed it for a minute or two. Some sections of the road were in need of repair but for the most part it was easy driving.

The photos above are from Amboy and the surrounding area.  Before we stopped for a coffee break at Roy’s, we saw the landscape change to a beautiful mix of volcanic rock and white sand. We wondered how long ago the eruption happened and how far away and got our answer when we followed a sign into the National Park for Amboy Crater. What a cool spot. Not only did we get great view of the cinder cone (you can hike to its rim if you have the time) but it was the site of the raddest picnic table I’ve ever seen. I took at least a dozen photos of it from different angles! We really wanted to hike the trail and just be in the stillness and silence that was all around it but it was getting late and we still had our overnight stop in Kingman ahead.

We hit the road, back on Route 66 where every hour or so was a new possibility of experiencing something from the past: a retro motel, a greasy diner, a scenic view. Had it not been for a meeting I had to come back for, we would have extended our trip by at least a week. The short stretch of Route 66 that we did was a tease but it reminded me of the diverse landscape that we have here. In other parts of the world you can drive six hours and pass through one or two countries with fairly similar looks and feels but here in the States, it’s possible to feel like you’ve been in three or four different worlds all in one day. Same country, no passport required. As much as I love working my passport, a good ol’ American road trip was just the ticket.